IF LOVE IS BASED ON FEAR IT BECOMES IF-EE
Ego based LOVE IS CALLED if-EE
If I have this, If you do this, If you give me this, It is becomes a love based on demands and condition. Our fear of love stems from our lack of love for ourselves or lack of self-worth. If we cannot love ourselves, how can we love another person?
SOMETIMES WE LOSS OURSELVES IN OTHERS BECAUSE OF THE EXPERIENCES WE HAVE FACED IN LIFE. WE GIVE SO MUCH BY OPERATING OUT OF FEAR, WE SAY TO OURSELVES. I DON’T WANT TO SEE YOU WITH SOMEONE ELSE, I DON’T WANT TO LOOSE YOU, I DON’T WANT YOU TO DIE. WE CLOSE OURSELVES DOWN AND DO NOT ALLOW OR EXPECT ANTHING IN RETURN WE GIVE UP EVERYTHING INCLUDING THE LOVE FOR OURSELVES.